Day 18 of 45Kind: Self-Defeating Behaviors to Avoid!

What are some of your self-defeating behaviors?

Negative self-talk is so common!  It is a self-defeating behaviors that I see in many of my clients and truth be told, I was a master at it myself.

What we tell ourselves has a direct impact on our confidence and our belief in our own abilities.

This may seem simple but calling yourself out for your negative self-talk is one of the best ways to stop doing it. This forces you to acknowledge the way you are speaking to yourself and gives you a chance to replace those negative messages with positive ones.

The first step to shifting this negative talk track is creating awareness of when it is happening.

Name that inner critic!

Watch my video to hear the name of my inner critic and start taking note of when you hear that negative voice. Call it out when you say something to yourself that is critical or unkind.

Many times just creating the awareness when it is happening will minimize the behavior!


The Confidence Building Flywheel is the latest journey guide now available for download at .

This resource will help you take the first step in recognizing those self-defeating behaviors you engage in without even realizing it.

Check it out and let me know what you think!

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